In this episode of the "Stories of Service" podcast, hosted by Theresa Carpenter, we are honored to have Dave Fielding, a former Army Green Beret and intelligence officer, as our guest. Dave takes us on a riveting journey from his blue-collar upbringing, through the rigors of military service, to his transformative healing process. He candidly shares the highs and lows of his life, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability, mental health, and genuine human connections.
Meet The Guest: Dave Fielding
Dave Fielding grew up north of Boston in a blue-collar family. Inspired by his grandfather, a World War II veteran, Dave was driven to pursue challenging endeavors from a young age. His early experiences with the Boy Scouts exposed him to near-death experiences and helped him push his boundaries. This foundation eventually led him to join the military, where he served as a Green Beret before transitioning to the intelligence community. Dave's journey is not just about his professional achievements but also about his personal struggles and triumphs, including his battle with mental health issues and the process of healing through writing.
🔑 Key Topics
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Dave's Background and Childhood: Growing up in a blue-collar family with a veteran grandfather who inspired him to push his limits.
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Joining the Military and Special Forces: The motivation behind his decision, the challenges of Special Forces selection, and the camaraderie he found.
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Transition to the Intelligence Community: Seeking stability and new opportunities, and facing personal challenges, including a divorce.
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Struggles with Mental Health and Relationships: Overcoming emotional turmoil, self-doubt, and suicidal thoughts.
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Finding Healing and Writing 'Into the Darkness': The journey of self-discovery and the importance of vulnerability and self-awareness.
💡 Discussion Points
✔️ Gain insights into Dave's personal journey and the importance of self-awareness and vulnerability
✔️ Acknowledge that emotions like anxiety, depression, and trauma are normal human experiences.
✔️ Practice vulnerability, empathy, and compassion to create safe spaces for sharing struggles.
✔️ Prioritize the human element in organizations and create environments for open, honest communication.
✔️ Continue to ask yourself 'why' to gain self-awareness and understand your internal dialogues and behaviors.
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Resources
- Dave Fielding's Book: "Into the Darkness: A Journey of Love, War, and Emotional Freedom"
- Mental Health Resources: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline and Mental Health America
- Support Networks: Veterans Crisis Line and Wounded Warrior Project
- S.O.S Podcast Playlist
- Find Theresa on Parade Deck!
In this heartfelt conversation, Dave Fielding reminds us of the power of vulnerability and the importance of mental health. His story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of genuine human connections.
